Noticing changes in your body is a normal part of growing up, and your parents are ready to support you through it!
Start with What You’ve Noticed
You could say something like: “I’ve noticed my body is changing” or “Some things are different lately.” You don’t need to give every detail at once.
Be Specific If You’re Comfortable
If you feel okay being more specific, you can say things like: “I’m growing taller” or “My body shape is changing.” Share what feels comfortable.
It’s Okay to Feel Awkward
Growing up conversations can feel weird! You can even say, “This is embarrassing, but…” Your parents will understand and try to make it easier.
They Want to Help
Your parents want to make sure you have what you need, whether that’s new clothes, supplies, answers to questions, or just reassurance that what you’re experiencing is normal.
Ask Questions
If you’re worried about something, ask! “Is it normal to…?” or “Why is this happening?” Your parents (or another trusted adult) can help you understand.
Privacy Is Okay Too
You don’t have to share everything. But if something is worrying you or you need help (like with periods or bras), it’s important to speak up.
Keep Talking
Puberty happens over years, not days. You can have many small conversations instead of one big talk. It’s okay to come back with more questions later.
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